Gary B. Cohen
Executive Coach
CO2 Partners, LLC

SPELLING SNOBS
By Diane Mapes

Some people avoid Krispy Kreme because of the calories. Angela Nickerson won’t go there because of the Ks.

"I confess, I'm a spelling, grammar and punctuation snob," says the 35-year-old travel writer from Sacramento, Calif. "And I won't patronize businesses with misspelled signs. It's like hearing fingernails running down a chalkboard."

Life isn't easy for language lovers such as Nickerson. Over the past decade, her beloved mother tongue has been mashed, mangled and mistreated by everyone from a sitting president to a squadron of texting preteens. Misspelled menus have become the stuff of bad dreams. (Try our Sweat and Sour Chicken!) Punctuation is not only hit-and-miss, it's potentially hazardous. (Employees must "wash hands."

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Quotes

"It's amazing how many cares disappear when you decide not to be something, but to be someone." -Coco Chanel

"There are no bad troops, only bad leaders."- John Harvey-Jones

"The most important thing in communication is to hear the thing that isn’t being said." - Peter Drucker  

 

Question of the Month

If we add this action or objective, what one are we going to drop?

Today I find more organizations overwhelmed with too much strategy, which really is not a strategy at all. More companies need to pair down what is one their plate verses added more to it.


 

 

March 2009
Email: gcohen@co2partners.com

 

In This Issue
  • Just-in Readers
  • Book Review by Gary Cohen
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    Dear Just-In Readers;

    Last month, I described how Charles McCabe expanded his business based upon a simple question: "Why don't you sell your tax school to other independent tax firms?" In the process, he helped insulate himself and his business against ever-changing economic conditions and the competition.

    This month, I'd like to continue in the flexible business vein. "Repurposing" has become a popular term and practice, especially for the Green Movement and those interested in reducing waste. Old New York subway cars, for instance, are now serving as breakwaters off the coast of Delaware--and have helped marine life flourish to boot.

    As Managing Director of Wave Dispersion Technologies, Jonathan Smith's primary source of business was Floating Breakwaters, designed to stop beach erosion (much like the repurposed subway cars). Then the Naval Facilities Engineering Service Center (NFESC) asked, "Can your barrier be repurposed as a floating security barrier (FSB)/line of demarcation (LOD)?"

    Questions are often opportunities to grow (both personally and professionally), provided you're not too entrenched in your ideas, habits, and processes. Smith seized this opportunity for growth. Within twenty-four hours, Wave Technologies developed a prototype, photographed and video-ed it in the water, and delivered the details to NFESC, who dubbed it the "definitive, survivable line of demarcation."

    Since that interaction with NFESC, 80% of Wave Dispersion Technologies' sales have been in the area of FSB's and LOD's!

    Don't wait for NFESC (or its equivalent) to come to you. Ask your organization: How might we repurpose the products and services we offer?


    What Got You Here Won't Get You There: How Successful People Become Even More Successful
    by Marshall Goldsmith

    Marshall Goldsmith--author, coach, and savvy marketer--spells out the twenty most common bad habits of executives in this book, but you don't need to be an executive to benefit from his advice. Everyone could stand to take responsibility for their actions, keep a positive and generous attitude, and work on (not celebrate) their faults--which is, essentially, the message of the book.

    Here, in Goldsmith's own words, are the twenty habits to avoid:

    1. Winning too much: The need to win at all costs and in all situations--when it matters, when it doesn't, and when it's totally beside the point

    2. Adding too much value: The overwhelming desire to add our two cents to every discussion

    3. Passing judgment: The need to rate others and impose our standards on them

    4. Making destructive comments: The needless sarcasms and cutting remarks that we think make us sound sharp and witty

    5. Starting with "No," "But," or "However": The overuse of these negative qualifiers which secretly say to everyone, "I'm right. You're wrong."

    6. Telling the world how smart we are: The need to show people we're smarter than they think we are

    7. Speaking when angry: Using emotional volatility as a management tool

    8. Negativity, or "Let me explain why that won't work": The need to share our negative thoughts even when we weren't asked

    9. Withholding information: The refusal to share information in order to maintain an advantage over others

    10. Failing to give proper recognition: The inability to praise and reward

    11. Claiming credit that we don't deserve: The most annoying way to overestimate our contribution to any success

    12. Making excuses: The need to reposition our annoying behavior as a permanent fixture so people excuse us for it

    13. Clinging to the past: The need to deflect blame away from ourselves and onto events and people from our past; a subset of blaming everyone else

    14. Playing favorites: Failing to see that we are treating someone unfairly

    15. Refusing to express regret: The inability to take responsibility for our actions, admit when we're wrong, or recognize how our actions affect others

    16. Not listening: The most passive-aggressive form of disrespect for colleagues

    17. Failing to express gratitude: The most basic form of bad manners

    18. Punishing the messenger: The misguided need to attack the innocent who are usually trying to help us

    19. Passing the buck: The need to blame everyone but ourselves

    20. An excessive need to be "me": Exalting our faults as virtues simply because they're who we are

    As a coach, I have seen executives exhibit these habits. It's not that surprising really. Many of these habits develop because executives are accustomed to success and, therefore, reluctant to accept failure. These executives don't always get to work with people who are as smart or talented as they are, which can be frustrating and spark anger.

    While the habits Goldsmith addresses are understandable, they aren't defensible. Leaders often come to this realization themselves. They reach a point in their careers where they want to be respected more than feared. They want to change the way they show up.

    Goldsmith gives wonderful illustrations of these twenty habits and some suggestions on how to move away from them. So do yourself a favor and get this book, which is available in paperback, audio, and kindle. Reviewed by Gary Cohen

    Reviewed by Gary Cohen

     


     

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