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Gary B. Cohen
Executive Coach
CO2 Partners, LLC

In Just Ask Leadership, Cohen steers you away from the all-too-common idea that if you don't assert yourself with strong statements, you will not be respected. On the contrary, statistics prove that 95 percent of employees prefer to be asked questions rather than be told what to do. Involving employees and colleagues in decision-making processes builds an environment rich with energy, excitement, and innovative problem solving.

Just Ask Leadership Assessment


Unlike most other leadership assessment tools that try to "mold" you into the "right" way to be, we dig deeper to find out what makes you tick. What your strengths are and how to translate those strengths into high caliber, effective leadership skills. And to discover challenges that might be impeding otherwise significant progress. Put simply, we help you become a better leader in your own skin using your own skill set and unique strengths.

Websites of Interest

The Conversation Prism - The art of listening, learning and sharing.

BRANDWEEK - Content rich resource into how effective branding effects industry trends.

ROWE - This months author, create a "Results Only Work Environment" - ROWE

 

QUESTION OF THE MONTH

"In order to be a leader and to exercise leadership effectively, what must be present?"

 

 

QUOTES

"This is the true joy in life, the being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one; the being a force of nature instead of a feverish selfish little clod of ailments and grievances complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy."

"I am of the opinion that my life belongs to the whole community and as long as I live it is my privilege to do for it whatever I can."

"I want to be thoroughly used up when I die, for the harder I work the more I live. I rejoice in life for its own sake. Life is no "brief candle" to me. It is a sort of splendid torch which I have got hold of for the moment, and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations."

- George Bernard Shaw from his play "Man and Superman"

 

 

 

 


 

October 2010
Email: gcohen@co2partners.com

 

In This Issue
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  •  Dear Readers
  • Why Work Sucks - Book Review
  • CO2 Blog
  • Free 'Ask, Don't Tell Leadership' E-Book
  • CO2 E-Brochure
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    Dear Readers,

    This is the second in a series of goal-related columns. Last month, I encouraged readers to define goals in SMART, positive, and picture - able language. This month' s focus is on common goal barriers or constraints - and how to overcome them.

    Let' s start with organizational constraints. The three most common are throughput, operating expense, and investment, according to Dr. Eliyahu Goldratt. In his remarkable book, The Goal, he identifies five steps for organizations to take:


    1. Identify the foremost constraint: What is getting in the way of achieving our goal?
    2. Decide how to exploit the constraint: How do we get the most through this constraining element so that we can achieve our goal?
    3. Subordinate all other processes: How can we align our entire system around exploiting that constraint?
    4: Elevate the constraint: What major changes are need to break the constraint so it is no longer a constraining element?
    5. Return to Step 1: Has the constraint been removed? If so, where is the next one that needs the entire focus of the organization?

    The constraints and barriers for individuals differ somewhat from organizations'. You might, for instance, have a personal narrative that locks you into a particular perspective that does you and others a disservice - even if it once proved true and valuable.

    Here are some common goal barriers for individuals:
    Doubt
    Self-betrayal
    Negativity
    Distraction
    Poor Communication
    Inflexibility
    Shortsightedness
    Single-mindedness
    Habituation

    Which of these will you need to overcome in order to attain your goal, and why?

    It's impossible, of course, to predict every barrier you might face, but the more planning you do in advance, the more prepared you will be when an obstacle surfaces or the environment changes.

    Map your moves, so that doubt is replaced by courage, self-betrayal by trust, negativity by positivity, distraction by clarity, poor communication by effective communication, inflexibility by flexibility, shortsightedness by vision, single-mindedness by open- mindedness, and habituation by innovation.

    To better understand what I mean by "map your moves," let' s look at some specific examples.

    1 . If you're susceptible to doubt or self-betrayal, ask a coach, colleague, and/or family member to support you;
    2 . If you're concerned about distractions, phrase your goal in absolutes or "all or nothing" language;
    3 . If you're a creature of habit and have a tendency to be single-minded, set aside time for brainstorming and prioritizing before your day gets out of control:

    Stop Doing (Trade-offs)
    There's a limit to what one person can do. Chances are that you're at, near, or over that limit already. In order to add and achieve new goals, it's unrealistic for you to keep doing everything you've already got on your plate.

    In order to do something new well, you need to stop doing something else.
    The activity or behavior that you give up may be Idle Time, TV Time, Exercise, Work, Family Time, Reading, or Computer Time. In the abstract, this decision might be easy. Of course you'd rather attain your goal than watch TV. But can you? Remember that TV time or idle time often serves an important purpose - relieving stress. Bear in mind, too, that many of our habits or pursuits are addictive and, as such, hard to break.

    Be honest with yourself. What are you really prepared to give up? And how much? Picture your desired end-state. It's attainable, but only if you're willing to make some sacrifices. Answer the following two questions and you'll have a sense of how to proceed and how much the goal means to you:

    1. What are you willing to stop doing to make the goal happen?

    2. What are you not willing to give up, and why?

    According to Napoleon Hill, "The starting point of all achievement is desire. Keep this constantly in mind. Weak desires bring weak results, just as a small amount of fire makes a small amount of heat."

    If you want to achieve a goal - as an individual or organization - you must act upon your desire by putting all of your focus on overcoming barriers or constraints.

    Gary

     

     

    Book Review: Why Work Sucks and How to Fix It, by Cali Ressler and Jodi Thompson
    Submitted by: John LeTourneau

    Imagine a Results Only Work Environment (ROWE) where value is measured on results delivered, not on who is the first one in the office and the last to leave. Individuals form teams based only on their need to deliver a specific outcome; they aren't required to be part of a team for team sake. In Why Work Sucks and How to Fix It, Cali Ressler and Jodi Thompson explode some of the most ingrained and outdated notions of work. What made sense for an industrial-age workplace, no longer does in this dynamic twenty-first century, information-based economy, and the authors explain why.

    While many organizations have embraced flexible work hours and telecommuting, not as many have made the quantum leap to ROWE. In Why Work Sucks, you'll learn the 13 guideposts that make a ROWE and much more, like the impact of "Sludge" in negative comments.

    This book draws heavily on the stories of employees and how dramatically their lives, both personally and professionally, improved as a result of ROWE. Employees aren't the only ones who benefited, though. Their companies did, too, through increased productivity and employee retention.

    "No schedules, no meetings, no joke..." the authors promise. If you're intrigued and want to learn more, attend the next installment of the CO2 Partners leadership series: "Eat The Book" October 26, 2010. Cali Ressler and Jody Thompson will be on hand to discuss why work sucks and what leaders can do about it.

     

     

     

     

     

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